Many people don't do this and that is understandable as you don't want to plan something that might not happen. A lot of people get motivated when they see their favourite influencer reaching their goal but when they try to plan something it never seems to work as life always seems to get in the way and makes them fall off track, but all I want to say to you is don't give up plan your goal and do everything in your power to get achieve it there are many obstacles that may come in the way but that helps you to not repeat the same mistakes if something like that does come in your way.
2. Self Reflection
In order to grow you need to reflect on why you make decisions
And whether that choice you made gave you a positive outcome or a negative outcome. It's up to you if you choose to learn from that negative consequence or decide to grow even more with the positive but make sure that at the end of the day you evaluate yourself on what you need to do to improve. Stop looking for other people to help try to fix you that is not to say that people such as friends and family can't help you of course they can but nobody knows and feels what you're going through like you. Be your own medicine!
3. Make supportive friends
What I mean by that is a lot of us, I mean, A LOT of us nowadays want to make friends for the sake of popularity however people always seem to forget that the more people you know the more problems it can bring. Not everyone is your friend and that is something you need to understand there are people who might be just with you for benefits and there are people who are with you waiting for your downfall in order to do what they want to do. It sounds harsh but in the harsh reality it just goes to show that the world is not a perfect place. Be observant and know who your real friends are because a fake friend can do a lot more damage than an enemy because they can be ruining your name and reputation and closing many doors to opportunities without you even knowing. It also doesn't matter if you don't have a lot of friends because a friend or a small group of friends who trust in you could lead on to greater things.
